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Same- im 53 on the back 9 of career - one in college and one in HS. so at the very least, i have 6-10 years left here. But both my girls know that once the youngest graduates college, moms n i are OUT. Yall can follow if yall want.
My oldest is full of hope and vigor- getting masters in Ed. Her BF wants to be in government- he too all bright eyed and bushy tailed. Im like " listen i want you two, upon graduation, to travel- go see what the world has to offer in way of lifestyle etc" THEN come back and find employment and start career...but understand that the career paths you both chose are rife with compromise and hardship. And DONT LET it make you cynical or put out that youthful "fire" you both have. It will certainly try.
I just dont see a really bright future for their careers here in this state. Youngest wants to be NICU nurse- she can do that ANYWHERE.
Yeah, I'm 52 with one in college and on the back 9 of my career. But, it's hard for lawyers to go work in other states (I'm only admitted in LA and am too old to take another bar exam) and both my wife and I are lawyers (she's admitted in Texas too). So, unless I somehow manage to retire one day (which seems doubtful), I'm here for the duration.
My daughter is an electrical engineering student which doesn't have a lot of options in Louisiana, but she is an intern for one of the few companies here that do need electrical engineers and she is on a path to have a great career moving up with them so she may end up staying. Her long time boyfriend on the other hand is also an electrical engineering student but he goes to school in the Northeast and likely does not want to move back here. That is until he finds out how much the cost of living is in the Northeast to live in a big city with his lifestyle and he has connections here that he will not have other places. So we will see where that goes. If our daughter leaves, we would certainly have a lot of motivation to follow her to wherever she goes.