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I agree with retro there. In my personal experience teenagers seem to like to go in exactly the opposite direction than a parent may nudge them in.
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Oh Im not disagreeing with you there. I know they will think they will know better. I only want them to look at the big picture. They can decide what they want afterwards.Whatever you want to call it - they are likely going to lean the exact opposite direction of your influence. LOL. That's also just reality, I wasn't attempting to place a "right" or "wrong" on it.
maybe it would have mattered, maybe notA family member was a straight A student in HS, and decided she didnt want to go to college. She is managing a movie theater. I thought it was a stupid decision but teens will do what they want. I know her parents were a little upset but what are you going to do?
No its not, but she was never really a go getter. Made the grades but no work ethic at all. I mean it didnt shock me, but I still didnt think it made any sense.one of the big surprises i've had as a HS teacher is seeing that success or struggle in HS was not predictive of college success/struggle
I am encouraging my daughter to do the same, just as soon as she's done with college.What if he doesnt want to go to college? I know Im not encouraging my son to go. I will encourage him to get a skilled trade as a plumber, HVAC, or electrician etc. and open his own business.
Clarkey every time I see your avatar I am so jealous of where you live. Tried to convince my wife to move there and she quickly vetoed that idea. I think it’s beautiful where you are.American "educational institutions" fascinate me to no end: some produce professional athletes, others must make a lot of money - where does it leave the other 99%? In debt for decades without a guaranteed good income/job?
Consider going elsewhere (e.g. outside of the country) to learn more about yourself, the rest of the world, and get a decent education at a reduced rate!
This, like insurance, banking and medical sectors are no less than a giant Ponzi scheme saturated with fraud. Until we change the increasing price of tuition and change the mindset that everyone needs to go to 4 year university college then we are simply treating the symptoms.
Until that changes, you have to play the game.
#1- If you are racking up massive debt to get a degree that has average to below average salaries, you are doing it wrong.
#2- Skilled trade and technical colleges offer many courses that are cheap and lead to average to above average wages. We as a country have to stop looking down on blue collar jobs and encouraging our youth to get behind a desk.
#3- Most 4 year degrees can be obtained very easily in 3 years reducing costs drastically and for those that want to be a full time student without a job then there is no reason not to be able to finish in 3 years.
#4- Community College offer plenty of classes for the first two years, sometimes at a 90% discount. Those credits transfer and nobody cares where you started.
#5- Most states offer scholarships that are pretty easy to obtain. If you don't meet those standards then there is a good chance you shouldn't be at a 4 year college.
#6- Most states offer some type of college investment fund that make it much easier. Most people never invest in them. Even if students in High School get a summer job to make the payments it would cut student debt in half. Parlay that with the first two years at community college and the final bill becomes pennies on the dollar.
Everyone wants to make Government, schools and banks the scapegoat which I get. It's a shirtty system but the rules to the game are pretty clear. Play the game or don't. Yes, the system needs to be changed but until it is, their are options.
I have so many friends that are Meteorologists with huge student debt looking for jobs in the field that aren't there and the ones that are don't pay enough to earn a living. That hasn't changed the last 20 years yet every year a full class of students make the same mistake. Worst part is, they all want jobs that they think involve getting up close to mother nature when in reality the jobs that are available consist of cubicles and low wages.
I've made it quite clear to my kids if they can't get the 3.5 GPA and mid 20's on the ACT then they don't need to be at a major university. I've also invested in state programs that will have community college for two years and two more years covered. It's not fun making those payments but it's not much more than a new iphone. They'll have a clear understanding that student loans are quicksand for life.
I honestly think that if people can avoid a few things in life that it all goes so much easier.
#1- No student loans.
#2- Never finance a car unless you can put 50% down and pay it off fast. It's ok to drive an old reliable junker.
#3- Avoid a big expensive wedding.
#4- buy a house young and pay it off quickly.
If we taught our kids that in grade school we'd be a much better country. Then again, if we were smart enough to do that we would be smart enough to vote outside the fraud box.
If we taught our kids that in grade school we'd be a much better country.
I honestly think that if people can avoid a few things in life that it all goes so much easier.
#1- No student loans.
#2- Never finance a car unless you can put 50% down and pay it off fast. It's ok to drive an old reliable junker.
#3- Avoid a big expensive wedding.
#4- buy a house young and pay it off quickly.
If we taught our kids that in grade school we'd be a much better country. Then again, if we were smart enough to do that we would be smart enough to vote outside the fraud box.