saintfan
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I can really sympathize with you. My marriage of 38 years is ending very soon. My spouse will not even tell me the name of her attorney (she lives in another state) so I had to serve her. I specifically told my attorney not to get the paperwork until after Thanksgiving. She never responded so I had to have her served again through a process server, and she still has not responded. She abandoned the marriage 4 years ago.
Despite the separation and her having moved on with her life (she is seeing somebody else) I still financially support her so that she does not fail. I'm not getting into the specifics of this entire mess, but it is the most difficult thing I have had to endure.
On top of that, I am a long time federal employee also facing the sequester. It is a crying shame that the supposedly most financially secure nation in the world cannot get their act together so that they can pay their employees.
This is a tough year, but no matter what, keep your head high and presevere. You will overcome the pain. You will become a better man for what is learned from this experience.
Despite the separation and her having moved on with her life (she is seeing somebody else) I still financially support her so that she does not fail. I'm not getting into the specifics of this entire mess, but it is the most difficult thing I have had to endure.
On top of that, I am a long time federal employee also facing the sequester. It is a crying shame that the supposedly most financially secure nation in the world cannot get their act together so that they can pay their employees.
This is a tough year, but no matter what, keep your head high and presevere. You will overcome the pain. You will become a better man for what is learned from this experience.