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I mean, maybe but, yeah, I had the same reaction.Is it bad that my only reaction was "Another one?"
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I mean, maybe but, yeah, I had the same reaction.Is it bad that my only reaction was "Another one?"
Is it bad that my only reaction was "Another one?"
I visited the Vatican. There are no holy men running the Catholic church. It's been converted into a gilded palace dedicated to making more money to gild the palace. Poor and sick line the walkways and inside is literally gold plated where they hawk 'blessed' items in the hallways.
I debated greatly on it. In the end, we've come to a mutual understanding that I nor they will change our minds so it's best to not discuss. I plan to hold them to it next time they need to attack transexual beer drinkers.I took the liberty of fixing your post. Surely your inquiries and advices didn't go over well.
I wasn't around then and have no interest in learning of their history since the time Sacred Heart in BR decided that my grandfather's passing did not exempt our family from running a booth at the church fair.Converted? Hasn't that basically been the Vatican since maybe the Renaissance? In fact, it might have been worse back then.
I attended Catholic Schools from lower elementary to a few years in college. Both of my children have attended Catholic Schools with my youngest graduating next year. I was an altar boy, confirmed and even married in the Catholic Church. Over the last twenty years I have distanced myself from the Catholic Church and Knights of Columbus. I realized a long time ago that people think that they are putting their Faith in the Church but in reality they are putting their Faith in Man and that is just a recipe for disappointment, betrayal and disaster. I have never lost my Faith, I just changed where I placed it.
I think that is the reaction of the vast majority and why this didn't get posted and doesn't get much discussion. I saw the story yesterday, but didn't bother to post it. I guess mostly because we all knew stuff like this was going on and being covered up. Things like this have been coming out for over 20 years about various Diocese.
That said, it's something we should be concerned with and talking about, but I think we all suffer from fatigue and disappointment on this subject. I left the faith long ago, but it still saddens me that those who still practice the faith have to deal with this.
Disgustingly ... and as, I believe, discussed also on the Gary Plauche thread ... wherever you find children in groups, you find people wanting to "take advantage". But normal people (read: those are aren't pedophiles) didn't used to know that. Now, unfortunately, to keep our children safe, we have to think like the pervert does...... sex scandals are not just in the Catholic Church. With that said, the Catholic Church does seem to have one of the worst histories of scandals, probably from any religious creed ..... (edited only for brevity)
Which is probably why allowing priests to get married would help alleviate some of the existing issues surrounding child sex abuse that has surrounded Catholic Church for honesty, centuries. It wouldn’t be a complete panacea but it would help. You don’t see the systemic high level of child abuse occurring on the same level let’s say among many Protestant denominations.Same same.. Well, kinda.. i didnt get married in a church, but the other stuff i quoted above applies to me as well.. I too am a Recovering Catholic of over 20 years.. I think it’s painfully obvious at this point that it’s more than just “a few bad apples” that make up the Catholic Church at this point, it’s an entire systemic pattern of grossness that infests Catholicism.. and it makes all the “Hollywood pedo” stuff that’s been in the news lately seem like child’s play, pun intended.. The Catholic stuff is way worse.. not to compare two extremely disturbing patterns, but the truth hurts .
Disgustingly ... and as, I believe, discussed also on the Gary Plauche thread ... wherever you find children in groups, you find people wanting to "take advantage". But normal people (read: those are aren't pedophiles) didn't used to know that. Now, unfortunately, to keep our children safe, we have to think like the pervert does.
I don’t know if you can really compare Catholic Church to Scientology or NXIVM. There are some crucial, fundamental differences between those “cults” and a Christian denomination that’s existed for 1,950 years. You can bash, mock insult the Catholic Church all day long but Heaven help you if you dare to leave Scientology or criticize its teachings, L. Ron Hubbard, Ron Miscavige, or its ultra-expensive authoritarian internal power-structure. If you publicly criticize either Miscavige or the Scientology, you are then immediately put on a “Fair Play” hit list and harassed, bullied, stalked and threatened.At this point, the Catholic church, if not most organized "religions", seem like cults.
Allowing priests to marry has nothing to do with pedophilia. It wouldn't help, since there is no link between celibacy and pedophilia.Which is probably why allowing priests to get married would help alleviate some of the existing issues surrounding child sex abuse that has surrounded Catholic Church for honesty, centuries. It wouldn’t be a complete panacea but it would help. You don’t see the systemic high level of child abuse occurring on the same level let’s say among many Protestant denominations.
Well, catching them early and making them accountable for their crimes and not covering it up and allowing it to become systemic certainly wouldn’t hurt.Allowing priests to marry has nothing to do with pedophilia. It wouldn't help, since there is no link between celibacy and pedophilia.
How many married teachers abuse their students? Should all teacher's be forced to be married before they begin teaching? It isn't the lack of marriage, it is the monster in the person. When the monster is allowed to steer the wheel and encouraged to do so by lack of consequences and blatant coverup by the shepherds, then the monster gets more empowered and attracts similar monsters to the herd.Which is probably why allowing priests to get married would help alleviate some of the existing issues surrounding child sex abuse that has surrounded Catholic Church for honesty, centuries. It wouldn’t be a complete panacea but it would help. You don’t see the systemic high level of child abuse occurring on the same level let’s say among many Protestant denominations.