Dating (37 Viewers)

[guidomerkinsrules]

I’m learning that white men on this forum have a thing for Asian women.

I’ll bite
And I’m sure this will sound like defensive rationality; you are certainly not the first to levy such a charge- but I think if I do have a type, it falls broadly under the umbrella of ‘not blond’
Then a bit more focused it would be ‘not anglo’
(pretty much the opposite of what MBS said)
Sure there have been several Asian gfs - but none of the have been very similar to/looked like any of the others
There have also been Latina, Mediterranean, and, of course, African American

One thing I feel I should note is that I was never the only white guy any of them dated

 

[0rion]

For the record, I generally just assume most dudes on here (& the internet in general) are fat, dirty cave dwellers until proven otherwise.

You know what they say about when you assume.....throw that out the window. In this case you're dead on.

 

[CapitalCitySaint]

You know what they say about when you assume.....throw that out the window. In this case you're dead on.

I’m sorry. I just saw this pic made into a meme a long time ago and that shaped my perception of dudes on the internet forever

 

[Paul]

I’m sorry. I just saw this pic made into a meme a long time ago and that shaped my perception of dudes on the internet forever

I thought this picture was outlawed.

 

[guidomerkinsrules]

For the record, I generally just assume most dudes on here (& the internet in general) are fat, dirty cave dwellers until proven otherwise.

I bathe

 

[Paul]

I bathe

You forgot the “as needed” clause.

 

[DaveXA]

I bathe

I'm skinny.

 

[TheRealJRad]

For the record, I generally just assume most dudes on here (& the internet in general) are fat, dirty cave dwellers until proven otherwise.

I like low ambient light ok, it helps me hide the Cheetos from myself

 

[CapitalCitySaint]

Damn all I said/observed was that the men in the forum have a thing for Asian women and suddenly everyone is defensive and explaining in paragraphs why they prefer Asian women over Americans/white women & running to the defense of Asian women saying that they aren’t all sloots & gold diggers.

Let the record reflect that I never stated any kind of stereotypes. it was the other men telling y’all to be careful for the gold diggers & sloots. Not me.

 

[saintmdterps]

I’m learning that white men on this forum have a thing for Asian women.

And African-American, Latina, Scandinavian, redhead, brunette, tall, short, slender, voluptuous….

You get the idea. Just the eternal search for those damn pheromones and that rush.

 

[saintmdterps]

A lot of men may appear clean at first glance but they aren’t. They wash clothes, leave them in the washer too long then dry them anyway and they stink, they don’t kept their nails trimmed & clean. They don’t floss their teeth, brush once per day if that & never go to their 2x annual FREE dental cleanings that dental insurance provides. A lot of men need to be using antibacterial soap bc they reek of BO. They wear nasty old man cologne or just way too much cologne in general. They don’t keep their hair cut or at least clean and neat. Their house/apartments and cars (if they have them) are dirty.

Don’t get it twisted, I will not come near a man with bad hygiene but I have guy friends some of these things apply to, friends with husbands/bf who are gross, see these nasty mfa’s at the gym and other places.

Don’t get me wrong, I know there are plenty of filthy women, too. I just don’t date women so I am talking about hygiene for men

I can fathom sitting/working around the house for a day in an unkempt state. I cannot fathom showing up for a date that night in the same unkempt state.

My house and of course my car are clean.

I have been in the vehicles of women who treated their cars like a dump. I did a ride-along with a woman at work (sales rep years ago) who had dogs. She apologized for the condition of her car and said she didn’t have a chance to clean it this past weekend.

Past weekend?? Who you tryna fool? You ain’t cleaned this thing in the current decade. Dog hair everywhere. Center console filthy. That car was disgusting. I went home and showered immediately

And be nice to your pets. Don’t ever yell at them in front of me because god knows how you treat them if I’m not there. My cat is as well cared for as my car. Not over the top, just well-tended.

 

[guidomerkinsrules]

Damn all I said/observed was that the men in the forum have a thing for Asian women and suddenly everyone is defensive and explaining in paragraphs why they prefer Asian women over Americans/white women & running to the defense of Asian women saying that they aren’t all sloots & gold diggers.

Let the record reflect that I never stated any kind of stereotypes. it was the other men telling y’all to be careful for the gold diggers & sloots. Not me.

“Who knew the bear would be poked if I stuck it with this stick that’s here in my hand?”

 

[Madmarsha]

I read "meat" instead of meet.

And completely missed "cure". Hmmmm

 

[Madmarsha]

Damn all I said/observed was that the men in the forum have a thing for Asian women and suddenly everyone is defensive and explaining in paragraphs why they prefer Asian women over Americans/white women & running to the defense of Asian women saying that they aren’t all sloots & gold diggers.

Let the record reflect that I never stated any kind of stereotypes. it was the other men telling y’all to be careful for the gold diggers & sloots. Not me.

They're also sensitive.

 

[Mr. Blue Sky]

Damn all I said/observed was that the men in the forum have a thing for Asian women and suddenly everyone is defensive and explaining in paragraphs why they prefer Asian women over Americans/white women & running to the defense of Asian women saying that they aren’t all sloots & gold diggers.

Let the record reflect that I never stated any kind of stereotypes. it was the other men telling y’all to be careful for the gold diggers & sloots. Not me.

I mean, i didnt think ur post about ‘most guys here like Asian women’ or whatever was negative, or accusatory or anything like that.. i just saw it as ur observation … similarly, my response to you was simply my observation (im assuming my response was one of the posts you were referring to as ‘defensive’).. Also, in order to be defensive- doesn’t there need to be something you are trying to ‘defend’ ? Again speaking only for myself, i have nothing to defend , i just think it’s a little funny, and maybe a little ironic that i was never into Asian women until i moved to Asia .. i actually thought my response to you was thoughtful, logical and maybe even a little bit vulnerable (of course i am biased). ….. Then again, despite my best intentions- maybe even *this* very post is coming across as defensive .. if so, then i guess i give up…. Also i learned a long time ago to never discount the possibility that what i think may in fact be wrong .