Why do women do this? Part 2 (1 Viewer)

[Optimus Prime]

This isn't just my girlfriend, this is every girl I've ever dated for any length of time going back to the 8th grade.

Here's the scenario:

I call her up

ME: "Hey, do you want to get together for dinner tonight?"

HER: "Oh, I can't tonight. I have to work late" or "I'm not feeling well" or "I'm going out with some girlfriends tonight" or "I'm really tired, going to bed early" or " I have a big test, need to study" or whatever.

ME: "No problem, we'll do it another time" and it's no problem, I go find something else to do with myself.

The "why women do this" part is when the roles are reversed

HER: "Hey, do you want to get together for dinner tonight?"

ME: "Oh, I can't tonight. I have to work late" or "I'm not feeling well" or "I'm going out with some friends tonight" or "I'm really tired, going to bed early" or " I have a big test, need to study" or whatever.


SHE: (Proceeds to act like her whole world just collapsed, and then gets sad or mad or both)

WHY????

This is absolutely true. I've seen it with all the girls I've dated, my friends' girlfriends, my female friends and coworkers do it to their boyfriends/husbands.

It confuses me.

 

[BIG E]

Because she sits on the thing that makes the world go round.

 

[purvis_guy]

Still trying to figure out women? You're going to blow a circuit board.

 

[guidomerkinsrules]

b/c they can

 

[Scorpius the Allfather]

She's not really asking a question. She's telling you what's going to happen in the form of a question. You would have to come up with some bull and then get upset like it's out of your control, that way she thinks you care about it as much as she does.

 

[wnelson]

She's not really asking a question. She's telling you what's going to happen in the form of a question. You would have to come up with some bull and then get upset like it's out of your control, that way she thinks you care about it as much as she does.

so, do what men have done for the past 10000000000000000 years and lie

 

[Scorpius the Allfather]

so, do what men have done for the past 10000000000000000 years and lie

That's pretty much what I said except that I added that you have to sell it too.

 

[Sabine]

For the record, there's no shortage of pouty men out there. Guys who reached the peak of their emotional maturity in the 8th grade abound.



OP, dating females whose butts look like that of a teenage boy's comes at a price.

 

[SaintsFanInLA]

Two things:

1. Women want exactly what they want, exactly when they want it and exactly how they want it.
2. Women HATE rejection in ANY form.


It doesn't matter that your schedule may be packed with essentials. I have female friends who have told me verbatim, when their beau disappoints them, retribution will be steep. "He will pay for that."

I can't tell you how many discussions I've had with ladies when I point out something that they do, yet complain to me about someone else doing THE EXACT SAME THING, yet it is somehow different when it comes to them.

 

[DefKhan1]

This isn't just my girlfriend, this is every girl I've ever dated for any length of time going back to the 8th grade.

Here's the scenario:

I call her up

ME: "Hey, do you want to get together for dinner tonight?"

HER: "Oh, I can't tonight. I have to work late" or "I'm not feeling well" or "I'm going out with some girlfriends tonight" or "I'm really tired, going to bed early" or " I have a big test, need to study" or whatever.

ME: "No problem, we'll do it another time" and it's no problem, I go find something else to do with myself.

The "why women do this" part is when the roles are reversed

HER: "Hey, do you want to get together for dinner tonight?"

ME: "Oh, I can't tonight. I have to work late" or "I'm not feeling well" or "I'm going out with some friends tonight" or "I'm really tired, going to bed early" or " I have a big test, need to study" or whatever.


SHE: (Proceeds to act like her whole world just collapsed, and then gets sad or mad or both)

WHY????

This is absoluteley true. I've seen it with all the girls I've dated, my friends' girlfriends, my female friends and coworkers do it to their boyfriends/husbands.

It confuses me.

No offense, but you're from Chalmette, right?
Try dating outside the parish

 

[DefKhan1]

seriously though... many young women are reactive, or borderline personality types...
They split, everything is black and white, they love then hate, then love again...
Emotions are intense, betrayal is expected, and then punished fiercely and then makeups are great...prone to mood swings, temper tantrums, mini psychotic like episodes...
It's when you finally get beyond dating that type of woman that life is so much more comfortable, albeit much less "exciting..."

I don't know if this describes what you're experiencing, but it describes a lot of women... especially a couple of women I knew back in the day.
Or maybe I've just been working in a women's prison too long.

 

[zatsnzapps]

No offense, but you're from Chalmette, right?
Try dating outside the parish

Different dude.

 

[Gingerbread Man]

Different dude.

Still good advice.

 

[Flipx99]

OP, dating females whose butts look like that of a teenage boy's comes at a price.

wait, wut?

 

[zatsnzapps]

Still good advice.

Depends on your goals.