Why do women do this? Part 2 (4 Viewers)

[Gingerbread Man]

Depends on your goals.

 

[St. Guinness]

Depends on your goals.

...guilty.

 

[bornnraisedwhodat]

Women don't know what they want. My girl will fuss at me when I don't say sorry, and when I do she say "I'm tired of hearing sorry's". Women

 

[bornnraisedwhodat]

Sense + women = oxymoron

 

[atceagle]

"You're married?"

 

[Optimus Prime]

Two things:

1. Women want exactly what they want, exactly when they want it and exactly how they want it.
2. Women HATE rejection in ANY form.


It doesn't matter that your schedule may be packed with essentials. I have female friends who have told me verbatim, when their beau disappoints them, retribution will be steep. "He will pay for that."

I can't tell you how many discussions I've had with ladies when I point out something that they do, yet complain to me about someone else doing THE EXACT SAME THING, yet it is somehow different when it comes to them.

But what IS that all about?

"I have to cancel our date, there is an emergency that only I can handle and it's a life or death matter'

"He will pay for that"

Saintsfan, what do they say do explain themselves when you have those discussions with them?

 

[deltadawg]

A wise man once told me, Junior they have no money and all the "P"... Date them, they have no money and problems, and all the "P"...
Marry them they have all the money, give you problems, the bjs come to an end, and all the "P"
See what us men do for the "P".......

 

[SaintRob39]

Or you can just grow a pair and say as my dad always did, "they can get glad in the same pants they got mad in".

 

[WhoDatDiva504]

I'm dealing with a situation like this right now. He calls me up asking what I'm doing and if I want to do something. Sometimes I'm tired and really don't feel up to it. Nothing personal. But he won't take no for an answer sometimes. He'll pester and pester me, like I'm going to just change my answer. Yesterday I was at LSU all day getting stuff ready for the fall and came back to Metairie. Then I had to go help my mom clean up after a banquet she had at her job. He wanted to go out but I wasn't up for it. He got kinda mad, but I just wanted to take a shower and go to sleep.

 

[basilisk]

not enough people (men and women) have really learned how to just be content

 

[Firecross]

Yep Women are fricken weird, heres my story.

There was this woman I liked for a long time, I told her how I felt and she basically told me she was chasing someone else that she had liked, I said fine, I told her thats cool, I understand, a few days later I told her was going to take my leave of her because I would only hinder the situation because I had strong feelings for her and I decided to let her go because it wouldn't be fair to just BS about it say it didn't bother me. I think it would of just led to an ugly situation had I not done that.

She got so emo and mad, I don't know what was expected of me. I thought I handled the situation with class, I complemented her, told her I hope it works out with the said guy because she deserves the very best, I wished her well and said hopefully we can talk again some day down the line.

She went bat S*** insane about it, I don't know what else I could have done. I felt like I did the right thing which I was always brought up to do.

 

[coldseat]

It's called emotional insecurity and it doesn't go away.

Logic doesn't play a role in this. Only what they feel at the time.

You have to learn to phrase your answers to communicate with their "emotional reasoning" (an oxymoron if there ever was one) as opposed to their "logical reasoning". And from time to time you have to suck it up and do things you don't want to.

Thus is the price of keeping a women happy (as much as possible, that is).

 

[Chief LongHorn]

This thread is full of knowledge, yet I feel that I've learned nothing

 

[rechargeable]

For the record, there's no shortage of pouty men out there. Guys who reached the peak of their emotional maturity in the 8th grade abound.



OP, dating females whose butts look like that of a teenage boy's comes at a price.

I never have and never will date a woman with neither the body nor the butt of a teenage boy. I prefer my women's butts to be like that of a grown adult woman, yet, I can relate to the OP.

Don't even think about reversing the roles to let them know how it feels, cause they will then just say..."why are you acting like a woman?"

Them #$%#$e$ know exactly what they're doing.

 

[Jonesy77]

She does it because she can. If you don't like it, she'll find some other **** in under 24 hours. You want someone who thinks more like you, she's going to look more like you also. Life's full of choices. Pick sane or hot, but you don't get both unless you're really rich.