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There's a good chance he's done for good unfortunately, hate to see it.
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I’m ok with it as I’m sure a lot of people would agree. I’d sacrifice my brain, back, arms, legs whatever for my kids.A broken brain is different than broken bones
I watched my dad have his mental decline - seemingly more minor than many others; but even a minor one was bad enough
And it started when he was late 60s
Now imagine your dad starting to lose his brain in his late 30s - that most of your adult life you’re watching your father in mental decline
While the ‘provide for the future idea’ is noble and all, it’s pretty shortsighted
Heck, I know this is extreme, but I am worried that he doesn't even have a future. Highly unlikely. I just don't want to see it happen.While the ‘provide for the future idea’ is noble and all, it’s pretty shortsighted
And completely lifeless. When you see a guy get completely knocked out for even a second, that's what gets me.I never want to see him on a stretcher again, even if that means never seeing him catch a touchdown again.
Look, I know Concussions and CTE are on the forefront but I tend to lean towards the Tua thinking on this. My life is more about providing for my children and children’s children than myself. I’d gladly die to save or advance them substantially. There is danger in everything we do. You think guys on an oil rig should retire because tomorrow they could lose their lives? I’m all for these players doing what they want. I’m pro-choice when it comes to that. In their position I’d play with a broken back for pure love and enjoyment plus the added benefit of generational wealth.
In this case, there’s no benefit to return for him. Hey not in a contract year so playing great or not playing gets him paid the same. Heal up and come back next year healthy. That’s the smart move for him and his future.Look, I know Concussions and CTE are on the forefront but I tend to lean towards the Tua thinking on this. My life is more about providing for my children and children’s children than myself. I’d gladly die to save or advance them substantially. There is danger in everything we do. You think guys on an oil rig should retire because tomorrow they could lose their lives? I’m all for these players doing what they want. I’m pro-choice when it comes to that. In their position I’d play with a broken back for pure love and enjoyment plus the added benefit of generational wealth.
I mean, I get this, too, but I think Tua's nuts.Look, I know Concussions and CTE are on the forefront but I tend to lean towards the Tua thinking on this. My life is more about providing for my children and children’s children than myself. I’d gladly die to save or advance them substantially. There is danger in everything we do. You think guys on an oil rig should retire because tomorrow they could lose their lives? I’m all for these players doing what they want. I’m pro-choice when it comes to that. In their position I’d play with a broken back for pure love and enjoyment plus the added benefit of generational wealth.
Most jocks are.I mean, I get this, too, but I think Tua's nuts.
You point out the issue yourself- it’s not a zero sum game - your sacrifice/their gain - your sacrifice creates a burden as well as a gainI’m ok with it as I’m sure a lot of people would agree. I’d sacrifice my brain, back, arms, legs whatever for my kids.
I understand both sides and I’m sure my kids think I’m more important that money. I know though I a couple generations I’ll be forgotten but giving my heirs an opportunity like that I couldn’t pass up on.
It's a personal decision, but I would not advise a relative of mine to keep going. Brain damage is not something to be taken lightly. There us a legal element to this a well. If I'm a team and a player to continue after a certain number official concussions, I having him sign a waiver. If they have serious cognitive impairment or decline in their 40s, don't try to sue me as an organization.Look, I know Concussions and CTE are on the forefront but I tend to lean towards the Tua thinking on this. My life is more about providing for my children and children’s children than myself. I’d gladly die to save or advance them substantially. There is danger in everything we do. You think guys on an oil rig should retire because tomorrow they could lose their lives? I’m all for these players doing what they want. I’m pro-choice when it comes to that. In their position I’d play with a broken back for pure love and enjoyment plus the added benefit of generational wealth.
Look, I know Concussions and CTE are on the forefront but I tend to lean towards the Tua thinking on this. My life is more about providing for my children and children’s children than myself. I’d gladly die to save or advance them substantially. There is danger in everything we do. You think guys on an oil rig should retire because tomorrow they could lose their lives? I’m all for these players doing what they want. I’m pro-choice when it comes to that. In their position I’d play with a broken back for pure love and enjoyment plus the added benefit of generational wealth.
Dad suffered a stroke, won't go into details but let's just say he wasn't the same after that. Mom had early onset dementia and lived with me, my wife and kids for the last year of her life because she couldn't be on her own. Did it suck? Yep, would money make it better, nope but I can guarantee you both of them would've gone through it all again x 1000 if they knew their kids and grandkids never had to worry about a light bill again in their lives. Everyone dies, a lot die slow painful deaths, that's life. What I and I'm sure many don't want is to die like that and be a financial and physical burden to my children and grand children. I wouldn't sell my soul for 500 million dollars but I'd sure allow a lobotomy for that money knowing that was one less thing my children had to worry about. Life ends, that's kinda life.No offense, but this was clearly written by someone who has never had go deal with a loved one who has severe brain issues, cognitive decline, dementia, etc.
It's not arthritis. It's not a bad back. Its a forking astronomical and heart breaking burden for everyone involved.
that’s…bleakDad suffered a stroke, won't go into details but let's just say he wasn't the same after that. Mom had early onset dementia and lived with me, my wife and kids for the last year of her life because she couldn't be on her own. Did it suck? Yep, would money make it better, nope but I can guarantee you both of them would've gone through it all again x 1000 if they knew their kids and grandkids never had to worry about a light bill again in their lives. Everyone dies, a lot die slow painful deaths, that's life. What I and I'm sure many don't want is to die like that and be a financial and physical burden to my children and grand children. I wouldn't sell my soul for 500 million dollars but I'd sure allow a lobotomy for that money knowing that was one less thing my children had to worry about. Life ends, that's kinda life.
That's life. You, me, everyone is going to die. In 100 years most won't be remembered. My kids and grandkids will mourn me, hopefully I'm a big enough influence to them or some stranger or friend that my life wasn't for nothing, but I will die, that I can be sure of. No time to whine about it while I'm here.that’s…bleak
It's a personal decision, but I would not advise a relative of mine to keep going. Brain damage is not something to be taken lightly. There us a legal element to this a well. If I'm a team and a player to continue after a certain number official concussions, I having him sign a waiver. If they have serious cognitive impairment or decline in their 40s, don't try to sue me as an organization.